Sunday, December 16, 2007
what are the purposes of relationships? i have seen people do some crazy things because they were in a "relationship". see i havent been in many relationships to be honest and they never lasted all that long...its hard to be with someone, its hard to trust someone.its hard to open up to someone, its hard to relate to someone...relationships are just hard. its hard to find someone that you can get along with without them getting on ur last nerve. its hard not to get into arguments. its hard not to be selfish and only think about yourself. BUTTTTTTTT.....we all do it anyways....yea as much as many of us try to stay away from relationships its something that draws us to someone of the opposite sex or if u prefer same sex....and sometimes you hear about couples that have been together for like 50 years and think aww how cute... and then you begin to wonder if its possible. you think people could actually be together for so long without killing eachother or losing their minds...
and its hard to think that the person that you might find youself in love with was once in love with someone else....and what happens to those feelings once shared between them...does the love go away? where does it go? and what about you yourself, how do you feel about it? is it possible to be only friends with someone you were once in love with?
its something to think about....