Sunday, December 16, 2007
what are the purposes of relationships? i have seen people do some crazy things because they were in a "relationship". see i havent been in many relationships to be honest and they never lasted all that long...its hard to be with someone, its hard to trust someone.its hard to open up to someone, its hard to relate to someone...relationships are just hard. its hard to find someone that you can get along with without them getting on ur last nerve. its hard not to get into arguments. its hard not to be selfish and only think about yourself. BUTTTTTTTT.....we all do it anyways....yea as much as many of us try to stay away from relationships its something that draws us to someone of the opposite sex or if u prefer same sex....and sometimes you hear about couples that have been together for like 50 years and think aww how cute... and then you begin to wonder if its possible. you think people could actually be together for so long without killing eachother or losing their minds...
and its hard to think that the person that you might find youself in love with was once in love with someone else....and what happens to those feelings once shared between them...does the love go away? where does it go? and what about you yourself, how do you feel about it? is it possible to be only friends with someone you were once in love with?
its something to think about....
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I wonder whats your perspective on this post as of today. It should not be hard to trust someone unless you have your guard up for fear of being hurt. A person that can really trust wont need to be questioned in your mind. Believe it or not sometimes you can be one in the same with another person :p
ReplyDeleteIf I may ask, how do you feel about this topic as of now? I felt similar to what you describes in this post as well. But everyone needs time to test their waters, grow and mature. Honestly, after a while it is not easy being in a relationship after you have gotten used to being in your own. But then again it is great when you find that someone that can cheer you up every time you look at them and smile every time you have a conversation. Fights will arise but the love shall never waver. To become close, the couple must change the way the title relationship and remember that it is also a friendship.
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