It is the Captains Way of Life

Am I really wrong for not giving second chances?
I have found that when I first meet someone and they do something I don't like and or appreciate within like the first week of me knowing them that they stand zero chance.
Apologies and everything.
I make up my mind about someone and BOOM! It shall not be undone.
Don't we all have that person in our lives who just doesn't stop incessantly talking?!
It's like, obviously I don't care. Also refers back to having my mind made up about people.
After that I can't care. I literally can not care.
It offends most people, people think its Bitchy blah blah ect.

Then there is the acts of desperation that some individuals will subject themselves to.  See, you may be willing to quote unquote behave completely selfishly because of me. But I can be selfish too.  My needs are my own.  My needs shall come before your own because you have already hung yourself with my rope.

I was absolutely serious before when I said, someone is going to realize what a catch I truly am without having to play games.

Every/anyone else...they don't mean shit if they blew their opportunity. Even if we are still  "friends"  :D

I am probably wrong, but all of my life I spent give, give, giving to others even when it left me with nothing every time.  Big mistake. Why should I let people walk on me? Why should I let people take advantage of my nature? When things are good, they are and have the potential to be...amazing. But, wreck it and that's the end. It is so simple.

"The ESTJ is outspoken, a person of principles, which are readily expressed. The ESTJ is not afraid to stand up for what she believes is right even in the face of overwhelming odds. ESTJs are able to make the tough calls."